Girl Cliques: Are you a Queen Bee, Floater, Target, Sidekick, Torn Bystander, Banker, or Wannabee?

What's Your "Clique Identity"?

For each question, click the appropriate choice.
(If undecided, you can click more than one choice.)

More info on "Clique Personalities" can be found in
Queen Bees & Wannabes, by Rosalind Wiseman

Question One
Choose the most truthful statement(s) --
1) I find it very hard to say "no" to friends
2) I am an easy-going person, not terribly sophisticated
3) I am eager to please those who are socially above me
4) I enjoy gossiping secretly about other girls
5) I can argue anyone into a corner if I need to
6) My best friend is the leader of a clique
7) I stand out in a misunderstood manner

Question Two
Choose the most truthful statement(s) --

1) I was one of the first in my group to focus on boys
2) I often tempt or seduce older boys through my sexuality
3) I enjoy being with boys but would not say that I'm obsessed with them
4) I think it would be hard for a boy to know the real me
5) I believe it would be unlikely for a guy to notice me
6) Most boys can be handled if you know their confessions
7) I need a boyfriend desperately to be fulfilled

Question Three
Choose the most truthful statement(s) --

1) I am often singled out for ridicule or humiliation by other girls
2) The girls in my group are afraid of me
3) I often will "suck up" to gain the approval of more sophisticated girls
4) I hang out exclusively with the more sophisticated girls in my group
5) I often must reluctantly choose some girls as my friends over others
6) I tend to make friends with other girls quite comfortably
7) I have developed a number of girls who are used for social contacts

Question Four
Choose the most truthful statement(s) --

1) social status is not a big deal for me
2) I have an "eye-for-an-eye" view of the world
3) I feel isolated and excluded from most people
4) It's important to be powerful or intimidating
5) It's necessary to have a cool style, fashion, clothes, etc.
6) I think the "real me" is more evident on a one-to-one basis
7) I have gleaned a lot of stuff about my peers' personal lives

Question Five
Choose the most truthful statement(s) --

1) I often behave in a manner to appear less bright than I really am
2) It's important to enforce the rules of a clique to quell most disputes
3) When I was young, I was selective about inviting the right people to my birthday parties
4) I am frequently helpless in the face of others' cruelty
5) People usually feel comfortable and safe around me
6) I believe it is necessary to adopt a a social strategy with most people
7) I am often a messenger when there's a fight between two girls or groups of girls

Question Six
Choose the most truthful statement(s) --

1) I am fiercely loyal to a dominant girlfriend
2) People are often afraid of what I may tell others about them
3) I believe one's image is paramount, and tend to be cynical about relationships
4) I have learned to be sympathetic to people who are outcasts, because I know how it feels
5) I am insecure about friendships and often don't really know what I want
6) I often apologize for others' actions even when I know they're wrong
7) I like to avoid most conflicts...but I can be assertive if I need to be

Question Seven
Choose the most truthful statement(s) --

1) I secretly dislike the bossy girl who runs my group
2) I am often teased or scorned by peers
3) My telephone and email are my social lifelines
4) I am often bold, confident and blunt
5) I am strong when it comes to keeping others in line
6) I am rarely excluded from the important groups
7) I am not into "winning" most of my conversations

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