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Queen Bee

Floater

Wannabee

Banker

Torn Bystander

Sidekick

Target


Your "Clique Identity" is the one with the most YES's

Consider your other YES areas in their relative significance. Together they form a composite: You.

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Queen Bee -- You rule the roost, often with an iron hand. You can be affectionate and charming with certain people...when you need to be. Often, however, you are cruel and intolerant. You can argue anyone down, including friends, teachers, and parents. You are arrogant, sure you know everything. The advantage is that you gain power over those around you. The disadvantage is that you lose a true sense of self. It is supplanted by your self-image, and a general cynicism of your male and female peers.

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Floater -- You represent a rare, perhaps highly-evolved, individual. Possessing strong self-esteem, you are not restricted to a single group of friends. You are able to keep your personal options open and unique. Your friends genuinely like and respect you, without feeling intimidated. You are one of the few who, if backed into a corner, will stand up to the Queen Bee. You are less likely to sacrifice yourself to keep social status, and refuse to be judged by others. You accommodate all types of people.

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Wannabe/Pleaser/Messenger -- Most girls are one of these; some are more obvious about it than others. Either you're in a clique or trying to get in. You will do anything to win the approval of the Queen Bee, such as adopt her style, clothes, etc. You are terrified of losing your status, or peer-support, inside the clique. Often you'll "suck up" to the Queen Bee, or others above you in social position...even if it means spreading rumors or gossip about a Target. You frequently change your mind, depending on who it is you are interacting with. You seem to be always in the middle of a conflict, because you're uncertain of whom you should please the most. Unsure of who you are, you feel compelled to "fit in" and compromised by the wish to be important and accepted.

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Banker -- You seem harmless on the surface, but everyone is afraid of you. You think strategically, as you plan and observe carefully, acting out of self-interest. You become a listener to your peers, pretending to be their pal, banking the information you glean from them to further your own benefit. Socially, you have "the goods" on people who have mistakenly confided in you (this even includes the Queen Bee). You often cause conflicts between people in order to secure your position in the clique. People have learned not to trust you.

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Torn Bystander -- You don't like the Queen Bee but are terrified of her, and are easily influenced into doing things you don't want to do. You're not good at saying "no" to your friends; you want everyone to just get along. Often you must choose between the approval of the clique and your own personal interests, which means giving up such things as seeing plays, doing certain "geek" things, etc. Often you "dumb" yourself down so as not to appear too bright or threatening to others.

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Sidekick -- You are closest to the Queen Bee, and are her Second-in-Command. She is your authority figure; not your parents. You mimic her clothes, style, and goals -- and use her influence to control others in the clique. Like the Queen Bee, you are often first to focus on boys and to be attracted to them. Because you're not, usually, as pretty or as forceful as her, you gain popularity by endorsing her level of power over others. The disadvantage is that you may eventually forget who you are.

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Target -- Often you are set up by the other girls to be humiliated and scorned. For whatever the reason, you have been branded as a "loser" and have been isolated. You feel helpless about your treatment, and have come to expect the same old thing. You feel rejected and excluded, and have learned to feel empathetic as a result. Sometimes you will start your own small clique of genuine, faithful friends.

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